November is National Adoption Month. You may see stuff in your Facebook feed about being “chosen” and “born in my heart, not under it.” Those are wonderful sentiments. This isn’t an article about wonderful sentiments, so hold on, okay? What not to say to adoptive families My sons did not enter this world via my…
I don’t give a rat’s ass about the Kardashians…let me just put that out there. I don’t care about Kim. Not her lips, her butt or her daughter’s wardrobe. I don’t care about Klhoe. I know there are more of them but I’ve never bothered to learn their names. I don’t hate them…I just don’t…
I really, really try not to get wrapped around semantics when people make thoughtless remarks about our adoptions or when they ask a question that maybe they shouldn’t ask…or ask it in a way that’s offensive. I try to keep in mind that every person my family comes in contact with is not going to…
Every headache is a potential brain tumor and each new freckle might be malignant melanoma—this is how my brain works. I don’t run to the doctor over every ache and bump but I’m quick to climb the crazy tree with my good friend “what-if.” I’ll scale that tree with amazing speed, although it’s not too…
Have you ever heard someone say they’re colorblind? I’m not talking about the inability to distinguish between red and green, I’m talking about the people who claim they don’t notice racial or ethnic differences. I beg to differ. My husband, my daughter and I are white, and my two boys are Chinese. Our family was…
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“Age ain’t nothing but a number.” “You’re only as old as you feel.” “Women are like fine wine…they only improve with age.” I could probably come up with more cliché quotes about aging, but I think you get the idea. I am about to be 49, which is not generally known to be a milestone…
“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” This quote from Romeo and Juliet pops into my head every time I get drawn into a discussion on names. What the hell does that even mean? I guess this is probably the time where I admit…
Dora the Explorer turns 15 this month. I will just let that sink in. Pity me, people. I have a 23-year-old and two 5-year-olds…and yes, I know that’s a big gap between kids. Laura was eight when Dora first came on the air. We had about a year and a half of “OMG everything about…
Have you ever heard the phrase “it’s the little things in life that count?” I’ve always taken that to mean appreciation for something small and easily overlooked, such as the beauty of a sunset or the smell of a baby’s head. And what is it with the smell of a baby’s head, anyway? It’s like…
