Dear Mean Girl: I remember you

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Some memories really stay with you. I like to think I’m a pretty strong and confident person but seeing the name of the girl who taunted me in high school pop up on my friends’ social media feeds elicits a reaction in me, even after all these years. Here’s an excerpt of my latest post on Alamo City Moms Blog: 

Dear Mean Girl from My Freshman Year,

I remember you.

“Cool” is not a word people usually associate with me. That’s OK. I’m awkward, suck at small talk, and never know what to do with my hands.

I briefly held a seat at the cool kids table in eighth grade. That was the year I miraculously had the “right clothes” and one of the in-crowd girls took a liking to me. I happily rode her coattails through the school year with visions of four shiny happy years of moderate high school popularity ahead.

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Then we moved.

Our new house was only 30 miles from our old one, but it might as well have been on another planet. I started high school, once again that awkward girl who never knew what to do with her hands. My stepmother convinced me to give the pep squad a try. She’d been a cheerleader and firmly believed pep squad was the gateway to becoming a cheerleader and that cheering was the gateway to teenage happiness. I had my doubts about this, but it got me out of P.E., so I didn’t need much convincing. Because public changing areas and waist-high polyester shorts.

When we weren’t clapping and chanting at Friday night football games, we spent fifth period in the school auditorium. We occasionally practiced clapping and chanting, but the hour was mostly a blow-off. I spent most of my time writing in my journal, occasionally joining in the conversations around me about important stuff, like whether peanut butter was fattening.

Jill, you stink. Did you take a bath last night?”

This article is published today on Alamo City Moms Blog. I’d love it if you’d visit their site and read the rest…just go HERE.

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3 Comments

  1. I’m so sorry you experienced that, it appears this behavior starts WAY earlier now too. You are crushing the competition now though, so hold your head high!

  2. I was that awkward girl all throughout school. I have a speech impediment, I wear glasses, I have freckles, my teeth are hardly straight, and one of my parental units decided I should have incredibly short hair for YEARS. I was nerdy (still) am, and just never fit in.

    The only thing special about me, in my teenage opinion, was my hair color. I’m a natural redhead, and have never dyed my hair. Well, apparently, the only other natural redhead in our group felt threatened by my presence.

    One day, she got up from her seat and lunged at my head. She declared to the whole group that my hair could not possibly be ACTUALLY red, since my roots are dark. They weren’t, but it was a huge deal back then…apparently. I told her I have baby pictures and toddler pics to prove it. But, the damage was done.

    It seems silly now, but it had a huge impact on me at the time.

    I still remember the names of the girls (and boys) who made fun of me for stuttering, or for being smart. Looking back, it’s their issue. I have no control over them making fun of someone with a speech impediment (which is a disability) any more than I can control them hating on someone for “being in the smart classes.”

    Sorry for the long comment here! I really related to your post, and am glad I clicked the link to read the whole thing.

    – Alexia
    http://www.alexiapbullard.com

  3. I checked out the rest of the post, and your experience really resonated with me. I had mean girls harassing me for most of high school. It wasn’t until my senior year that I was free from them. It made a huge difference in my quality of life. Senior year was rough but at least I didn’t have to deal with those girls anymore.

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